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Can Flight Delays Bring JOY?

It started with the first text from the airline, your flight is delayed. I wasn’t surprised. Anyone who is paying attention to the airline industry right now knows that delays, canceled flights and more have become the norm. I was actually ok with a little delay. It meant an extra hour of sleep and I would still make my connection. I showed up at the airport for the delayed flight. I could easily see that there was no way we were getting out with the new “delayed flight time.” At this point, I realized I would not make the connecting flight so I went to the gate agent and was rebooked for my connecting flight. No problem. Trust the process, I said to myself.

We got on the plane and of course, we had to de-ice. More time. Then, something I have never seen before happened. The flight attendant started opening the overhead bins. We had been ready for takeoff and now the bins are being opened. The pilot came on and said that we had too much luggage below and for weight distribution we needed to move suitcases from down below to the overhead bins. Literally, the ground crew AND pilots started bringing suitcases into the seating area and putting them in the overhead bins. As you can imagine, we were getting later and later. Now even those who thought they had a chance of making a connection were shaking their heads in disbelief.  We finally took off and of course, in true “this type of flight” fashion, sat just inches short of the jet bridge because there was no one there to work it. I thought one woman was going to hyperventilate because she was so panicked about making her flight.

What fascinated me the most was how calm I felt sitting in my seat, taking this all in.  I was really trusting God that all that was happening for a reason.

THIS WAS SOMETHING NEW FOR ME!

Prior to the pandemic, I would have been panicking. I would have had a leg bouncing up and down, been worrying about everything and who knows what else. But that was then. This is now. The pandemic has taught me several things. One of those things is that there is a lot out of my control. I can only control how I respond to what is happening. Another thing is that there are always solutions and I will get to where I’m supposed to be when I’m supposed to get there. It doesn’t mean I don’t take action. It means I take action when I can. And one more thing is that I look for the silver lining in everything. I look for the gifts in what is taking place.

Back to the plane trip. Due to being rebooked, I actually had a little time in the airport. I actually had time to sit down, eat lunch, collect my thoughts and even do a little people watching. I didn’t have to run to my gate. I walked at a nice pace. Due to the change in flights, I was upgraded to a nicer seat with more fancy snacks. I still arrived on a warm sunny afternoon and even met a lovely couple who let me ride on the light rail with them so I didn’t have to ride alone. We enjoyed a glorious 20 minutes of conversation about local breweries.

Why am I sharing all this? I want to remind you to trust the process. I want to remind you that there is purpose in everything. There is a gift in everything. Even this pandemic. There have been a lot of horrible things and yet, there have also been gifts. Just like life.  May you find purpose, JOY, gratitude and trust in all that you do!

Blessings, Peace and JOY—

-Deb

Blessings, Peace and JOY – 

-Deb